Life in general

It never ceases to amaze me how some poeple can enlflict their will on others and others will fall down and obey. In short terms you tell someone no but end up doing what they want you to do anyhow. I don't, however, follow that way. I mean in my job I sometimes have no choice cause it is a society in which those individuals think they are smarter than you are. I am talking about other folks I know that kind of blindly follow others. What is it about that one person that can make some one do something they really don't want to? Is it lack of will power? is it lack of understanding? What makes them do this? I guess I live my a simple rule of calling it like I see it. If the baby is ugly the baby is ugly. Don't get me wrong some blindly following of others can be good. It can lead to other opportunities and open doors never thought possible. Yet if over and over again blindly following someone leads you into harms way or getting into trouble..... You just might want to re-think your decision making paradigm. Ahhh breathe in breathe out had to get that out of the way.

I was asked the other day is it worth it all. Life that is. all the trials and tribulation we go through. The ups and downs. The good and the bad. My initial response of course was yes. It is all a learning phase, for waht purpose I have no idea. I think I got my answer though today. I was reading an article about a young girl who had several tumors in her brain and in her spine. She was only 16 when she found out. Instead of giving up though she continued on. One of her life's goals though was to have children. She didn't care that she only had a 30% chance to live over the next year or two. What hurt her the most was she would not be able to have children. Which is what she wanted. to be a mother, to give life to something. Well she did accomplish that goal and several days later she passed away.

I think that is the meaning of this life though is to accomplish your dreams and goals. Don't let anything stand in your way. Shoot for what it is you are after. yes sacrifices are a part of what you have to do in life and sometimes your goals have to be sacfrificed to acoomplish other things. Doesn't mean life isn't worth it, Just means your priorites have changed. Some changes in priorties can be good others not so good. The main part though is that you are accomplishing things you set out to do and that is where life becomes worth it. If youare just sitting around and doing nothing and being lazy, complaining about this or that. Then get up and do something about it, granted sometimes you can only go so far and you get blocked, People, money, sleep, etc I understand. Yet as long as you are working towards somethng and not being stagnet then you are accomplishing something.